做一个好的倾听者,不是一件容易的事。有些人恐怕会嗤之以鼻:不就是听吗?谁不会?只要不是聋子,只要长了耳朵,人人都会。注意,我说的是倾听,是专注地听,细心地听,耐心地听。听与倾听是有区别的。比如,我们小时候玩的“传话”游戏。小朋友们排成一排,每个人轮流把从上一个人那 It’s not easy to be a good listener. Some people may scorn: Do not you listen? Who will not? As long as not deaf, as long as the ears, everyone will. Note that what I am talking about is listening, listening attentively, listening attentively, listening patiently. There is a difference between listening and listening. For example, we used to play “talk ” game. The children are lined up, each taking turns from the last one