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古兵书《六韬·选将第二十》中,有段耐人寻味的话:“有贤而不肖者;有温良而为盗者;有貌恭敬而心慢者;有外廉谨而内无恭敬者;有精精(精明)而无情(才情)者;有湛湛(清彻)而无诚者;有好谋而无决者;有如果敢而不能者;有性性(诚恳)而不信者;有恍恍惚惚(不清醒)而反忠实者;有诡激(奇辩不实)而有功效者;有外勇而内怯者;有肃肃(严正)而反易人(平易近人)者;有嘀嘀(严厉)而反静意(诚恳)者;有势虚形劣而出外无所不至、无所不遂者。”兵书的作者认为,以上这些就是人的“外貌不与中情相应”的情况,即所谓的“情貌不一”。由此可见,“知人”是何等的不易!
There are some interesting words in the ancient textbook “Liu Tao · Election to be Twentieth”: “Those who are virtuous and unsightly; those who are gentle but are robbers; those who are respectful and who are slow; those who are honest and respectful but who have no respect ; Have refined (shrewd) and merciless (talent) who have Zhan Cham (clear thorough) and no sincerity; conscientious and resolute; those who dared can not; have sex (sincerely) and do not believe who; There are trance (not clear) and anti-loyal; have irritability (not true and false) and effective; there are courageous and cowardice who have Su Sue (Yan Zheng) and anti-people (approachable) who; There are beeping (severe) and anti-static (sincerely) those who are in a bad situation and out-of-the-wild everywhere, no one is trying. ”The author of the book said that these are people’s“ appearance does not correspond with the situation ”situation , The so-called “mixed feelings.” This shows that “knowing people” is not easy!