用“恋爱说”和“兄弟说”形容两岸民众和政党互动的过程、现状和愿望都有道理。但在给两岸关系做法理定位层面,“恋爱说”从前提上否定了两岸同属一个国家的历史和现实,潜藏着极大危险。两岸关系法理定位可采“兄弟说”,万不可误入“恋爱说”陷阱! It is justified to describe the process, current situation and aspirations of the interaction between the people and the political parties on both sides of the Strait by saying “love theory” and “fraternity theory.” However, in order to define the relationship between the two sides of the Taiwan Strait based on the position of jurisprudence, “love theory” has, on the premise, negated the history and reality of the two countries belonging to the two sides of the Strait and posed great dangers. Cross-Strait jurisprudence can adopt “brotherhood” and can not be mistaken for the “love that” trap!