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其实,妻子们往往容易犯经验主义的错误。女性最致命的一个弱点就是依赖性强。每一个女人(包括女强人)都希望丈夫比自己坚毅、豁达和刚强。“女人啊,你的名字叫弱者”的传统观念或多或少地存留于现代女性的思想之中,因此,她可以让自己任性而娇弱,却不能容忍丈夫的脆弱、自卑甚至无能。因此在丈夫有自卑情绪时,她的心理平衡被打破了,一种深深的失落感油然而生,继而烦躁,甚至恼怒,以至处理此事态度会使原本幸福的家庭蒙上一层阴影。不能否认,少女时代崇拜的偶像给我们女性的一生刻下了不可磨灭的印象,心目中白马王子是完美无缺、理想中的男子汉。然而现实生活中,男人却是很实际的、
In fact, wives are often prone to make mistakes of empiricism. One of the most deadly weaknesses of women is their dependence. Every woman (including the woman) wants her husband to be more determined, open-minded and stronger than herself. The traditional notion of “woman, your name is weak” is more or less left in the thoughts of modern women. Therefore, she can make her wayward and delicate but can not tolerate her husband’s weakness, inferiority or even incompetence . Therefore, when her husband has a feeling of inferiority, her psychological balance is broken. A sense of deep sense of loss arises spontaneously, and then irritability and even anger, and even handling the attitude can cast a shadow over the originally happy family. Can not deny that the idolatry of adolescent girls carved an indelible impression on the life of our women, Prince Charming is the perfect man in the dream, the ideal man. However, in real life, men are very practical,