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孩子4岁了,最近我们发现幼儿园存在许多问题,比如在不提前告知的情况下频繁换老师,孩子反映新老师有打人行为,园长拒绝和家长沟通等。我们不放心,准备给他换一个幼儿园,但孩子很留恋班里的小朋友,该如何向他解释这件事情?解答一:兰心资深心理咨询师孩子是这件事的当事人,但他的年龄又让他没有足够的能力应对。那么,如何让孩子在决策过程中发挥自己的作用又不伤害其感受,是你们要考虑的问题。可以和孩子表述自己的心情:“我很想知道你在幼儿园的生活状况,但幼儿园不给我们反馈,爸爸妈妈很担心!”然后,给孩子表达的机会,不必去核实
The child is 4 years old. Recently, we found that there were many problems in kindergartens. For example, he frequently changed teachers without informing them in advance. Children reported that the new teacher was beating people and the principal refused to communicate with parents. We do not worry, ready to give him a change of kindergarten, but the children are very nostalgic for children in the class, how to explain to him this matter? Answer: Lan Xin senior counselors children is the party, but his age Let him do not have enough ability to deal with. So, how to make children play their role in the decision-making process does not hurt their feelings, is that you have to consider. Can express their feelings with their children: "I would love to know your living conditions in kindergarten, but kindergartens do not give us feedback, parents are worried! Then, to give children the opportunity to express, do not have to verify