把自己当作成人。不要表现得像个孩子,而是要以成人的方式对待父母,他们也将会这样对待你,理智而非感性地回应他们,让他们从其他成年人的角度看待你。经常与父母交谈。与他们越多探讨你的生活、希望、恐惧和挑战,他们就越会减少对你不必要的猜疑和担心。提出讨论的话题。自己提出讨论的话题,这样不会让父母感到尴尬。当讨论的时候,他们的情绪将会更加平静。探讨时事。展示你的观点,并为各自观点的不同而展开辩论,礼貌地挑战他们观点中你所不能认同的 Think of yourself as an adult. Do not behave like a child. Instead, treat your parents as adults. They will treat you the same way and respond to them intelligently, not emotionally, and let them see you from the perspectives of other adults. Talk to your parents often. As they explore your life, hopes, fears, and challenges with them, the less they become suspicious and worried about you unnecessarily. Raised the topic of discussion. Discuss the topic of their own, so that parents will not feel embarrassed. Their emotions will be calmer when they are discussed. Discuss current events. Show your point of view and debate for differences in their perspectives, politely challenge what you can not agree with their point of view