你好,我现在有两个问题要请教。第一,我女儿6周岁,我是律师,参照《刑法》“法无明文规定不处罚”的原则,我和她一起陆续地定了一些制度,比如针对咬手指、咬嘴唇等坏习惯,处罚的方式仅仅是罚站,没打骂,但孩子的坏习惯慢慢地都改掉了。因为是一起制定的,女儿也不抵触,有一定的效果。您觉得我的方式对吗?第二个问题是前几天她爷爷生日,她就是不想去,还哇哇大哭,讲道理也没有用。我知道她不去的原因是害羞,但不去肯定不行,结果是我强行把她带走,她在爷爷家一直都不开心。 Hello, I now have two questions to ask. First, my daughter is 6 years old and I am a lawyer. With reference to the principle of “criminal law” and “no law stipulates no punishment”, I set out some systems successively with her, such as for bad habits such as biting my fingers and biting my lips , The punishment is only a penalty station, did not scold, but the child’s bad habits are slowly removed. Because it is formulated together, the daughter does not conflict with a certain effect. Do you think my right way? The second question is her grandfather birthday a few days ago, she just did not want to go, but also wow cry, reasoning is useless. I know she does not go because of shy, but not sure not, the result is that I forcibly took her away, she has been unhappy in my grandfather’s house.