我有一位女性朋友麦子,是位大学老师,她常常这样打趣:每次量体重,轻了就对自己说:瘦了;重了就对自己说:胸部大了。耳濡目染了她的智慧,她教的学生也个个出落得颇具慧根。她常常教导说,也许成功要有条件,幸福则无条件。她的一个学生的QQ签名本是“事在人为”;考前一周,改为“一切随缘”;考试结束后,成了“重在参与”。 I have a female friend wheat, is a college teacher, she often jokingly: each weight, light to myself said: lost weight; heavy to myself: big chest. Her monasteries have witnessed the wisdom of her, and the students she teaches are quite different. She often teaches that maybe success is conditional and happiness is unconditional. One of her students QQ signature is “things in the human ”; a week before the test, changed to “all the revel ”; after the exam, became “emphasis on participation ”.