作为老师,我们都很熟悉这样的场景:学生犯了错误,老师把他叫到办公室,言辞恳切地进行谆谆教诲,甚至义正词严地指出他犯了哪几条错误,必须及时改正。有时候表面上看事情处理得似乎很成功,但实际效果却并不理想。这的确令人深思。究其原因,是我们在教育学生的时候,很少去考虑孩子的内心真实反应。我们总是认为自 As a teacher, we are all familiar with the scene where the student made a mistake and the teacher called him into the office. He earnestly carried out his teachings and even pointedly pointed out the few mistakes he made and must correct them promptly. Sometimes things appear to be successful on the surface, but the actual effect is not ideal. This is really thought-provoking. The reason is that when we are educating students, we rarely consider the true inner reaction of children. We always think of ourselves