一、不让孩子吃偏食,不要表现出父母的一切行动都以适合孩子的要求为目标,否则会不知不觉地养成孩子的利己主义和冷酷无情。二、分派孩子做力所能及的家务,并检查他们是否认真正确地完成,必须责备他的懒惰、敷衍了事和半途而废,让他们从小就养成爱好劳动的习惯。三、启发孩子的自觉性,使孩子感到即使大人不在身边也应该这样做,让他们懂得怎样对待自己的责任。不能过分夸奖孩子,以免助长孩子的虚荣心,听 First, not allow children to eat partial eclipse, do not show that all the actions of parents are to meet the requirements of children as the goal, otherwise they will unwittingly develop their children’s egoism and callousness. Second, assigning children to do their homework well and checking whether they have done so seriously or not have to blame him for being lazy, perfunctory and halfway to develop habits of hobby. Third, to inspire children’s consciousness, so that children feel even adults are not around also should do so that they know how to deal with their own responsibilities. Can not over-praise children, so as not to encourage children’s vanity, listen