老公大我几岁,又是成熟稳重型的,做事有效率、动手能力强。我渐渐习惯了凡事都依赖他、指望他。自理能力越来越差劲,他一出差,我总是手忙脚乱的,原来会做的现在也退化了。朋友总调侃,说我找了个爸爸一样的好老公,可我有点担心,这样的夫妻关系健康吗? My husband how old I am, is mature and stable, efficient, hands-on ability. I am getting used to everything depends on him, count on him. Self-care ability is getting worse, he was on a business trip, I was always in a hurry, what would have been done is now degraded. My friend always ridicule, that I find a good husband, like a father, but I am a bit worried, this relationship between husband and wife is healthy?