多年前,我有一位无所不谈的好友,我们一起谈论书籍、人物趣事、地域风情、事件影响与思想深度等各方面的话题。大学毕业后,由于受到某些影响,他改变了许多。要是谈到某件事,他会说自己不喜欢八卦;若是提及某人的名字,他会说此人是他的朋友,所以不想评论;若是提出某个想法,他会说这个想法在他眼中是神圣的,不容他对此进行任何评论。他这样说的时候并没有让人觉得语气唐突,而是相当的谦和。因此,我们的交流完全失去了以往的坦诚。但对我来说, Years ago, I had a friend who was talking about everything. We talked together about topics such as books, interesting facts, regional customs, the impact of events and the depth of thought. After graduating from college, due to some impact, he changed a lot. He would say that he does not like gossip when it comes to something; if he refers to someone’s name, he would say that the person is his friend, so he does not want to comment; if he is to say something, he will say that It is sacred in his eyes and can not allow him to make any comment thereon. When he said this, he did not make people feel abrupt, but quite modest. Therefore, our exchange has completely lost its previous frankness. But for me,