道理是直的,道路是弯的,只会走直路是很难达到目的的……看罢唐文杰的来信,非常理解他的苦衷。我非官场中人,只是以书中所得和已过不惑之年的人生阅历,去纸上谈兵。开门见山,谈两点粗浅之见。第一、关系真的很重要。20世纪最伟大的成功学大师戴尔·卡耐基说:一个人成功,15%靠专业知识,85%靠人际交往的能力。这样一个貌似悬殊的比例其实并不过分,因为人是群居的、具有社会性的生物。我们不论做什 The reason is straight, the road is curved, and it will be very difficult to achieve the goal only by going straight ... Looking at Tang Wenjie’s letter understands his painstaking efforts. I am a non-official middleman, only to get in the book and have never experienced the life experience, to talk about the paper. Go straight to the point, talk about two superficial views. First, the relationship is really important. Dale Carnegie, the greatest twentieth century master of success, says one person succeeds, 15% relies on professional knowledge and 85% relies on interpersonal skills. Such a seemingly disproportionate proportion is actually not excessive, because people are gregarious and have social creatures. We do whatever it is