许多人以为,胆大妄为是18岁人最为严重的问题,但我的经验却恰好相反。我发现,过分的羞怯和深深的自卑感,才是中国人在20岁之前应该解决的问题。自卑者总是能不停地找出优胜者的优胜之处,然后拿它们同自己的薄弱环节相比。于是,站在球场上看到别人动作灵活,我们便为自己笨得像牛而黯然神伤;比起优等生,我们总是记不住乱七八糟的定理,在不算复杂的逻辑演绎中,我们感到头昏脑涨。可是为什么不告诉自己“你也有长处”?且不说我们各自 Many people think that daring is the most serious problem for 18-year-olds, but my experience is just the opposite. I found that excessive shyness and deep sense of inferiority are the problems Chinese should solve before the age of 20. Inferiority is always able to find out the winner’s advantage, and then compare them with their own weaknesses. As a result, standing on the court saw others moving agilely, and we dejected ourselves to look like cows; we always could not remember the messy theorems compared to the top students, and in not complicated logical deductions, we felt Dizzy But why do not you tell yourself “Do you also have strengths?” Not to mention our own