时光任苒,朋友已经老大不小了。我们坐在一起吃饭的时候,她漫不经心地提到她和她的丈夫正考虑要小孩。“我们正在做一项调查,”她半开玩笑地说。“你觉得我应该要个小孩吗?”“他将改变你的生活。”我小心翼翼地说道,尽量使语气保持客观。“这我知道。”她答道,“周末睡不成懒觉,再也不能随心所欲休假了……”但我说的绝非这些。我注视着朋友,试图整理一下自己的思绪。我想让她知道她永 Time Ren Zhi, friends have big brother. When we sat together for dinner, she casually mentioned that she and her husband were thinking about having children. “We are doing a survey, ” she said half jokingly. “Do you think I should have a child? ” “He will change your life. ” I said carefully, trying my best to keep the tone objective. “This I know. ” She replied, “I can not sleep on the weekends, and I can never go on vacation anymore ... ” But I’m not saying that. I looked at my friend and tried to sort out my thoughts. I want her to know her forever