“他们可能会看到我看不到的东西,为我的判断提供更充足的信息。我渴望理解他人的观点,尤其是与我本人观点相左的意见。”有两种截然相反的心智模型及其后果。第一种以本体的谦逊为基础,我们称之为互助学习模型。第二种以本体的傲慢为基础,我们称之为单边控制模型。我用这些模型帮助许多客户从控制者的行为方式转变为了学习者。在做出这一改变 “They may see something I can not see and provide more information for my judgment.I am eager to understand the opinions of others, especially from my point of view. ” There are two diametrically opposite minds Model and its consequences. The first, based on the humility of ontology, is what we call a mutual learning model. The second is based on ontology arrogance, which we call the unilateral control model. I use these models to help many clients change their behavior from controller to learner. Make this change