作为一名初一的班主任,几乎每天都会接到孩子们稀奇古怪的各种“投诉”。涉及到学生交往之间的小纠纷,批评和惩罚往往不能取得令人满意的效果。初中学生正处于生理和心理发展的快速期,他们渴望了解社会,了解他人,了解自己,希望被人理解、支持,受人尊敬,希望得到师长和同伴的注 As a junior teacher, almost every day receives a variety of “complaints” that are bizarre. When it comes to small disputes between student interactions, criticism and punishment often do not produce satisfactory results. Junior high school students are in a period of rapid physical and psychological development. They are eager to learn about the society, understand others, understand themselves, want to be understood, supported, respected, and wish to receive the attention of teachers and peers.