多年来，老师给好学生的评语中指出缺点往往是：个性强、有骄傲情绪等。初中时，我在各方面都是尖子人物，却直到毕业也未能入团。40年后，当年的团支部书记才告诉我：“小学的操行说你个性太强，中学评语说你有骄傲情绪，所以你的入团申请一直通不过。”因为这个个性强，“招 Over the years, the teacher pointed out to students that the disadvantages are often: strong personality, pride and so on. When I was in junior high school, I was top-notch in all aspects but did not graduate until graduation. Forty years later, the party branch secretary of that year told me: “The primary school exercise says you are too personal. Your high school review says you have pride and emotion, so your application for joining a group has never been easier.” Because of this personality, "