父亲在孩子的成长中具有重要作用。奥地利心理学家阿德勒说:“父亲对孩子的影响非常重大。许多儿童在一生之中都把他们的父亲当作偶像崇拜,另外有些则视之为最大仇敌。”之所以有这个差别,一个重要因素就是父亲是否在家庭教育中履行了自己的职责。法国哲学家卢梭说:“一个做父亲的,当他生养了孩子的时候,还只不过完成了他的任务的三分之一。他对人类有生 Father plays an important role in children’s growth. Adler, an Austrian psychologist, said: ”The influence of dads on children is very significant, and many children have their daughters as idols throughout their lives, while others regard them as their greatest enemy.“ An important factor in the difference is whether or not fathers have fulfilled their duties in family education. Rousseau, a French philosopher, said: ”A father who, when he gave birth to a child, completed only a third of his task.