如果说“穷养”想要培养的是男孩吃苦耐劳的意志,则“放养”强调的是让男孩回归男儿本色:正直、勇敢、有担当!两个案例两种担忧老罗的儿子刚上小学。让老罗担忧的是,儿子没有一点男孩样,遇到一点点事情就哭:作业写不完哭,东西找不着也哭。在家中遇到任何事,都会习惯性地问“妈妈,怎么办?”晚上,妈妈如果不回家,他就不睡觉。平日里,儿子很少出去跟别的男孩子骑单车或者一起玩,说是怕脏;也不像别的男孩子喜欢看《超人》,却像外婆一样喜欢追看《外来媳妇本地郎》。老罗 If you say “poor support ” want to train the will of the boy hard-working, then “stocking ” emphasizes that the boy returns to the man character: integrity, bravery, have a responsibility! Son just went to primary school. Old Luo worry about is that his son did not have a little boy, met a little bit of things to cry: homework can not finish crying, things can not find cry. Anything she encounters at home will always ask “Mom, what should I do?” In the evening, if Mom does not go home, he will not sleep. On weekdays, his son seldom goes out to ride with other boys or plays with him, saying that he is afraid of being dirty. Nor is he like other boys who like to watch “Superman.” But they like to chase “Foreign Wives Local Lang” like grandma. Old Luo