●要对话,不要独白——避免“一言堂”对话是交际的基础,有对话才有交流,有交流才能产生情感认同和共鸣。教师在与家长沟通时应特别重视这一点,切忌扮演“一言堂主”的角色,对家长滔滔不绝、指手画脚。否则,即使教师讲得很有道理,家长也可能无法接纳,甚至还会反感。我们应将与 ● To talk, do not monologue - to avoid “a word of tong” dialogue is the basis of communication, there is dialogue to communicate, exchange can produce emotional identity and resonance. Teachers should pay special attention to this when communicating with parents and should not play the role of “one word and one principal”. They should never stop talking to parents about what they want. Otherwise, parents may not be able to accept or even dislike even if the teacher makes a reasonable statement. We should be with