发育正常的孩子长到一岁半、两岁的时候,往往会出现一种想摆脱成人依赖自己作主的倾向,什么事情都要“自己来”、“自己会’、“自己搞”。这是由于动作和语言的发展,使孩子逐渐感到“自己能”,想到什么地方自己就走去了,想要什么东西自己就去拿了,还能想方设法取得站在地上拿不到的东西。他需要运用自己身体,特别是手脚的活动来试验自己的力量,体验“自己能”的愉快。另一方面,也会出现遇到什么事都用“不”来反应。这是由于当孩子还不能独立走动、不能用语言表达意愿时,他不得不服从成人 When children grow up normally one and a half years old, when they are two years old, there is often a tendency to get rid of the tendency of adults to rely on themselves and what to do by themselves, by themselves and by themselves. Because of the action and the development of the language, the child gradually feels “herself”, thinking of where he is going, what he wants to go, and finding ways to get what he can not get on the ground. Need to use their own body, especially hands and feet activities to test their own strength, to experience the “own” happy.On the other hand, there will be encountered in the event of any “no” to respond.This is because when the child can not When walking alone and unable to express his wishes in words, he has to obey adults