“爱之深,恨之切。”也许是我们对子女的那份过度宠溺偏离了爱的天平,让他们感觉有些难以接受和窒息;也许是我们对子女的那份厚重寄托超越了他们的承受度,让他们感觉有些茫然和窘迫。于是,父母与子女之间的那种心理隔阂越来越深,那条年龄的代沟裂痕越来越大。父母责怪孩子不懂父母的心,却又依 “Deep love, hate cut. ” Perhaps our excessively drowning children deviate from the balance of love, so that they feel a little unacceptable and suffocating; perhaps we share the heavy burden of children beyond Their tolerance makes them feel dazed and embarrassed. As a result, the kind of psychological gap between parents and children is getting deeper and deeper, and the age gap between generations is getting bigger and bigger. Parents blame the children do not understand their parents, but according to