父亲躺在医院的加护病房里,还殷殷地叮嘱母亲不要通知远地的我,因为他怕我在台北担心他的病情。还是母亲偷偷叫弟弟来通知我,我才知道父亲住院的消息。这是典型的父亲的个性,他是不论什么事总是先为我们着想,至于他自己,倒是很少注意。我记得在很小的时候,有一次父亲到凤山去开会,开完会他到市场去吃了一碗肉羹,觉得是很少吃到的美味,他马上想到我们,先到市场去买了一个新锅,买了一大锅肉羹回家。当时的交通不发达,车子颠踬得厉害, My father lay in the hospital’s intensive care unit and earnestly urged my mother not to inform me in the distance because he feared I was worried about his condition in Taipei. Or my mother secretly called my brother to inform me that I did not know the news of his father’s hospitalization. This is a typical father’s personality, he is no matter what is always for our sake, as for himself, it touches on little attention. I remember at a very young age, once my father went to the meeting in Fengshan, opened his market to eat a bowl of meat soup, that is rarely eaten delicious, he immediately think of us, first to the market to buy A new pot, bought a large pot of meat soup home. The traffic was underdeveloped at that time,