《红楼梦》中所谓“女性”,并非单指生理意义上的“女性”,而是理想、美好事物的象征 ;所谓“女性崇拜”,也就表现了对美好理想的向往。相应地 ,对“男性”的嫌弃也就表现了对污浊现实的不满。小说从精神意蕴到人物安排 ,处处流露出浓厚的“女性崇拜”意识。这是作者生活经验和价值标准的下意识外化 ,是作者表明离经叛道立场的最直接方式 ,代表了曹雪芹心目中对所谓“正经”观念的悖离 The so-called “female” in “A Dream of Red Mansions” is not merely a “female” in the sense of physiology, but a symbol of ideal and beautiful things. The so-called “feminine worship” also shows a longing for a beautiful ideal. Accordingly, the dislike of the “male” also shows the dissatisfaction with the dirty reality. Novels from the spiritual implication to the character arrangement, showing a strong “female worship” consciousness. This is the subconscious externalization of the author’s life experience and value standard. It is the author’s most direct way to demonstrate his deviant position and represents Cao Xueqin’s disobedience to the so-called “serious” concept