知名教育家、有仙人指路之称的徐小平,在家庭教育上也很成功——他的两个儿子,目前分别就读于耶鲁大学和纽约大学。都是在加拿大出生长大的两个孩子,性格差异很大:大儿子学习非常好,性格内向而敏感。小儿子学习不怎么好,但性格积极、乐观、开朗。作为一位父亲,徐小平非常明白:父母不能用统一的成功标准来要求自己的孩子,因为个体差异,每个孩子的成长路径和结果都是完全不同的。所以,面对小儿子一直糟糕的数学成绩,徐小平从没批评过他。当小儿子写作也不怎么样,运动、美术都没展现出什么天赋时,徐小平还是一直夸奖他是个 Xu Xiaoping, a well-known educator and an immortal guide, also succeeded in family education - his two sons, currently studying at Yale and New York University, respectively. Are two children born and raised in Canada. Their characters vary greatly: their eldest son learns very well and their characters are introverted and sensitive. Little son learning is not very good, but the character is positive, optimistic and cheerful. As a father, Xu understands very well that: Parents can not claim their children with a common standard of success because each individual’s path of growth and outcomes are completely different. Therefore, in the face of the poor son’s math performance, Xu Xiaoping never criticized him. When the younger son writing is not good, sports, art did not show any talent, Xu Xiaoping has always praised him as a