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以前,在我的工作中,不论是采访还是组稿,听到的总是人们对当令父母过分溺爱子女的埋怨和忧虑之辞。于是,无形中我也逐渐形成了一种印象——今天的孩子们在父母那里得到的太多,父母给孩子的太多。然而,“六·一”前我参加的一次小学五年级学生的的座谈会,却让我看到了问题的另一面。孩子们坦白的倾诉,使我看到他们的内心深处有着不为家长和老师所知的苦恼甚至悲哀使我看到在许多方面,家长给孩子们的不是太多,而是太少。也许他们的苦恼和悲哀并不代表所有的孩子,但很值得引起我们的深思——
In the past, in my work, whether it was an interview or a group draft, I heard people always complaining and worrying about the parents who were overindding their children. Thus, virtually I also gradually formed the impression that today’s children get too much from their parents, parents to children too much. However, a symposium attended by a fifth-grade primary school student before “June 1” made me see the other side of the issue. The honest confession of the children made me realize that they have the anguish and even sadness not known to parents and teachers in their hearts that in many ways, the parents give their children not too much but too little. Perhaps their distress and sadness do not represent all children, but it is worth our consideration -