当代公共关系理论认为,现代人际交往最理想的效果是:既要密切,又要新鲜,彼此具有长久吸引的魅力。然而,在现实生活中,若要使各种人际关系都能较好地保持这种状态,那就需要距离——恰到好处的距离。可以说,距离是现代人际交往最美之花。古人最早感悟到人际交往需要保持一种若即若离的距离,并留下了“君子之交淡如水”、“淡淡相交得久长”等名言警句,告诫后人交朋友切不可过于密切,以免造成许多人生遗恨。现代管理学中有个著名的“刺猬理论”,说的就是两个在冬天里相互联暖的刺猬,如果相隔距离太近了会刺伤对方,而太远了又达不到取暖的效果。运用到管理活动之中,指 The contemporary public relations theory holds that the most ideal effect of modern interpersonal communication is that it is both close and fresh, and has long-lasting attractiveness to each other. However, in real life, if you want to make all kinds of interpersonal relationships can better maintain this state, then you need distance - just the right distance. It can be said that the distance is the most beautiful flower of modern interpersonal communication. The ancients first realized that interpersonal relationships need to maintain a distance from time to time, and left the “gentleman’s friendship pale,” “a touch of pale for a long time,” and other famous aphorisms, warned future generations to make friends must not be too close to avoid many Life hate. There is a famous “theory of hedgehog” in modern management, which means two hedgehogs that are warm in the winter. If they are too close apart, they will stab each other too far to reach the effect of heating. Apply to management activities, referring to