张思明在《北京教育》1987年12期撰文谈教师处理中学生早恋问题的对策,他说,教师对待处于早恋中的学生,最重要的是要“理疏情导”而不要“围追堵截”。因为后者往往容易激化矛盾,促使学生产生逆反心理。要把着眼点放在培养学生积极向L,对自己,对他人,对集体负责的精神上。通过讲道理,摆利弊,启发学生自觉地把 Zhang Siming wrote an article in the “Beijing Education” period of 198712 on the teachers’ measures to deal with the problem of puppy love among middle school students. He said that the most important thing for teachers to treat students in love and puppies is to “dissipate love” and not “to chase after interception”. Because the latter tends to intensify contradictions, prompting students to develop rebellious psychology. It is necessary to focus on cultivating the students’ enthusiasm to take responsibility for themselves, for others, and for the collective. By reasoning, putting the pros and cons and inspiring students to consciously