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在婚礼上,我喜欢观察那些翩翩起舞的夫妇们。总有那么一对儿,通常是年龄稍大一些的,跳起舞来配合得非常默契,舞姿中透出一股绝对的信心和神韵。这些拥有如此幸福的婚姻,惹人注目的人是谁?生活对他们来说怎会如此美妙?他们的爱情如此持久,其奥秘何在?我采访了全国各地一百对夫妇,年龄从二十来岁到八十多岁不等,最短的婚龄是七年,最长的已过五十五周年纪念。无论婚龄长短,他们维持爱情的秘诀,取得婚姻的成功,都有以下八个共同点:一、美满夫妇自一开始相处就毫无拘束。有一种由来已久的说法,说是“成熟”的爱情随时间的推移发展很慢,但大多数同我交谈过的夫妇都说,几乎是刚一相处他们就感受到了强烈的亲密关系,他们感
At the wedding, I like to watch those dancing couples. There is always a pair of children, usually slightly older, dancing to co-ordination is very understanding, dancing revealed an absolute confidence and charm. What are the attractive people who have such a happy marriage, how wonderful life can be for them, how long their love is lasting, and what is the secret of it. I interviewed a hundred couples across the country from the age of twenty From the age of 80 to 80, the shortest marriage age is seven years, the longest is the fifty-fifth anniversary. Regardless of length of marriage, the secret of their love to maintain, the success of marriage, have the following eight things in common: First, the happy couple get along without any restriction. There is a long standing argument that love, which is “mature,” has been slow to develop over time, but most couples I’ve talked to say feel almost intimacy almost immediately They feel