爱情能否持续?是否值得?是否必须永远地具有排他性?永恒爱情的观念对今天的我们还有意义吗?——“在让心过于执著于某样东西之前,我们应该看看那些已经占有那样东西的心是否幸福。”多年前,我观看法国影片《大鼻子情圣》,被西拉诺对罗克珊娜的默默守护深深打动。但随着年岁渐长,我开始疑惑:浪漫爱情的对象之所以令我们产生爱意,是因为她或他本身吗?抑或是因为我们所生活的某个社会网络——文化氛围、语 Is love sustainable? Is it worth it? Must it ever be exclusive? Does the concept of eternal love mean anything to us today? - “Before we let our hearts be too clinging to something, we should look at those who already have That kind of thing is happy. ”“ Years ago, I watched the French film ”Big Nose Lover" and was impressed by Syracuse’s quiet guardian of Roxana. But as I grow older, I begin to wonder: why do the objects of romantic love make us love because she or herself? Or is it because of a social network in which we live - culture, language