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父母们常常会遇到这样的情景:两个孩子为了同一件玩具发生争吵甚至打斗;或有的孩子宁愿自己拿着玩具不玩,也不愿把它让给别人玩。很多父母为此发愁:孩子不愿意跟别人分享,以后会不会成为自私的人?其实,孩子之间的分享并不仅仅是把玩具借给伙伴那么简单,如果孩子不愿意借出玩具,也并不代表他是一个自私的孩子。在孩子的交往中究竟会发生什么事情,孩子的心里在想些什么?还是让我们走进观察室,细细体验一回吧。
Parents often encounter such a scene: two children in order to fight the same toy even fight; or some children would rather hold their own toys do not play, do not want to let it play to others. Many parents worry about this: the children do not want to share with others, the future will become selfish? In fact, the sharing between children and not just the toy to the partners so simple, if the children do not want to lend toys, but also Does not mean that he is a selfish child. What happens in the child’s interaction, what is the child’s heart thinking? Or let us into the observation room, a detailed experience of it.