徐志摩和林徽因——永不暝目型徐志摩对林徽因的激情至死不渝与徐志摩至死没有得到林徽因的爱有关,这是“剥夺”导致激情增加,证明了“实现”会导致激情减少。假设徐志摩对林徽因的追求在英国就大功告成,这段脍炙人口的恋情不会浪漫如初。至少从徐志摩的性格,尤其后来和陆小曼的爱情悲剧看,这种推论并非空穴来风。 Xu Zhimo and Lin Huiyin - Xu Zhimo’s passion for Lin Huiyin never ceases to be related to the love he had not received from Lin Huiyin, which is “deprivation” resulting in an increase of passion and proving that “realizing” can lead to passion cut back. Assuming Xu Zhimo’s pursuit of Huiyin is done in the United Kingdom, this popular affair will not be as romantic as ever. At least from Xu Zhimo’s character, especially later and Lu Xiaoman’s love tragedy, this inference is not groundless.