家乡有句俗语：“一女不吃两家茶。”初闻颇感奇怪，家乡话通常都说“喝茶”的，而这句俗语独言“吃茶”。后来读书渐多，方知“吃茶”是一句流传时间久、使用区域广的俗语，它有着与“喝茶”不同的含义。宋朝陆游《老学庵笔记》载：“辰沅靖蛮，男女未嫁娶者，聚而踏歌。歌曰? Home saying goes: “a woman does not eat two tea.” The first news is quite strange, hometown dialect usually say “drink tea”, but this proverb says “eat tea.” Later, more and more reading, known to “eat tea” is a spread of a long time, the use of a wide area of ​​the saying goes, it has a different meaning and “tea.” Song Lu Lu “Old School Temple Notes” contains: "Chen Yuan Jing Man, men and women are not married to marry, poly and Tage song.