【案例】小梅是一名初二的女生。一次,她的妈妈找到笔者哭诉:“我的孩子怎么那么自私啊!我省吃俭用,有什么好吃的东西,自己舍不得吃,都省下来给她吃。可是有一次,我随手吃了她一点儿小零食,立即遭到女儿的呵斥,她还指着我说:‘谁让你吃的!’我真是又生气又寒心啊!”这位母亲说到伤心处,已经泪流满面。【分析与疏导】有类似经历的父母不在少数。很多父母都反映,自己的孩子自私、占有欲强,做事不考虑别人的感受。事实上,现在的孩子尤其是独生子女,自私的现象确实比较普遍。很多孩子从小就养成 【Case】 Xiaomei is a sophomore girl. Once, her mother found the author crying: “How my child is so selfish ah! I live frugally, what delicious things, I can not bear to eat, save them to eat, but once I eat She was a little snack, was immediately scolded by her daughter, she also pointed at me and said: ’Who let you eat!’ I was really angry and chill! ’”The mother said sad, tears Face. Analysis and counseling There are a few parents with similar experiences. Many parents reflect that their children are selfish, possessive, and do not consider the feelings of others. In fact, the present-day children, especially the only children, are selfish indeed. Many children develop from an early age