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家庭教育专家、赵忠心教授主张:应淡化给孩子过生日的意识,要强化子女给父母过生日的意识;让孩子首先学会爱父母,他才育可能爱他人、爱集体、爱祖国。比较教育学博士魏贤超副教授从教育角度出发,认为给孩子过生日,不应只限于吃吃喝喝、快快乐乐、热热闹闹为目的,而应让孩于体会到“我又长大一岁了”,以促进孩子的进一步成长与发展为目的。中国少年报副总编、“知心姐姐”栏目主持人卢勤认为:年轻的父母应利用过生日这个机会,与孩子沟通、互献爱心;让孩子懂得回报父母的养育之恩;并建议年轻父母:一要善待自己的父母,二要认真对待自己的生日,三要理智地对待孩子的生日。
Family education experts, Professor Zhao Zhongxin advocate: Should give birth to the child’s birthday awareness, to strengthen their children to their parents a birthday awareness; let the child learn to love parents first, he could educate others to love, love collective, love the motherland. Associate Professor Wei Xianchao, an associate professor of comparative education, from an educational point of view, believes that giving children a birthday should not be limited to eating and drinking, having fun and excitement. Instead, they should let their children experience “I have grown a year older” To promote children’s further growth and development for the purpose. Deputy editor of China Youth Daily, “intimate sister” columnist Lu Qin believes that: young parents should take advantage of the birthday of this opportunity to communicate with their children, love each other; let the children know how to repay their parents parenting grace; and suggest that young parents : One should treat their own parents, two must take seriously their own birthday, three should be rational to treat the child’s birthday.