夫妻生活在一起,“一个锅里抡勺子”,哪有勺子不碰锅沿的。相互间发生点小矛盾,争吵一番也不足为奇。可是,如果两口子的感情基础不牢,又不会缓和与解决矛盾,弄不好,便会夫妻“解体”,骨肉分离。笔者从一些和睦家庭,美满夫妻中,提炼了四帖增进剂,不妨一试。 第一,善于对话。家庭的作用之一,是能使人有种归属 Couples living together, “a spoon 抡 spoon,” which spoon do not touch pot along. Occurrence of small contradictions between each other, quarrel it is not surprising. However, if the couple’s emotional foundation is not strong, they will not ease and resolve their conflicts and will not get along well. As a result, the couple will “disintegrate” and their flesh and blood will be separated. The author from a number of harmonious families, happy couples, refining four posts enhancer, may wish to try. First, be good at talking. One of the roles of the family is to make one kind of affiliation