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激情是人的身心对人、事、物、关系的超常投入,对这种投入的极度体验。激情有时象闪电雷鸣,象火山爆发,有时如红日蓬然生腾,如夕阳尽洒灿烂。情感移入说的是如何进入另一个人或群体的心理结构里去体验他(或他们)的情感活动,而后去理解并与其分担忧愁、痛苦或其它情感。嫉妒别人的人应该更多地看到自己的在有些方面也有胜过别人的长处。这才是应该找到的平衡点。贪婪既是一种欲望,又是一种情感:一种对占有的不满足感。贪婪是关系的死胡同,必须坚决地将其扼杀于初始……
Passion is the extraordinary input of human mind and body to people, things, things, and relationships, and an extreme experience of this kind of investment. Sometimes the passion is like thunder and lightning, like a volcanic eruption, and sometimes it’s like a red day, like a sunset full of splendor. Emotional shifting refers to how to enter into the psychological structure of another person or group to experience his (or their) emotional activities, and then to understand and share fears of jealousy, pain, or other emotions. People who are jealous of others should see more of their own strengths in some respects than others. This is the balance point that should be found. Greed is both a desire and an emotion: a sense of dissatisfaction with possession. Greed is a dead end of the relationship and must be resolutely killed at the beginning...