对儿子,我一直采用“硬心肠”的教育方式。儿子刚会走路时,一不小心就摔倒,我站在一旁就是不扶他,让他自己想办法站起来。儿子上幼儿园大班时,不小心把我给他交给老师的夏季冷饮钱弄丢了,哭丧着脸回来告诉我,希望能补给他,我一口回绝。我对他说:“这是你自己不小心造成的,那就一个夏天不吃冷饮吧。”妻子于心不忍,要掏钱给孩子,被我制止住。我并不是有意惩罚儿子,而是要 For my son, I always use “hard-hearted” education. When the son just walked, he accidentally fell, and I stood aside not supporting him and letting him find a way to stand up. When my son was in kindergarten, I accidentally lost the summer cold drinks money I gave him to the teacher and came back to me with a crying face and hoping to supply him with a refusal. I said to him: “This is your own careless cause, then a summer do not eat cold bar.” "His wife could not bear to pay for their children, I stopped. I do not intend to punish the son, but to