女儿去楼下买水果,在门口,我习惯性地给了她一个结实的熊抱。邻居看到,诧异地说:“啊,孩子长得比你都高了,你还抱她?你真宠她!”不禁一愣,继而莞尔。中国的孩子,似乎到了十岁左右,就很少有人会再拥抱他们了。其实,亲子之间,最好的身体接触方式就是拥抱,它简单又明确地表达着彼此最真的关爱。美国著名的心理学家赫洛德·傅斯博士说:“拥抱可以消除沮丧——能使体内免疫系统的效能上升;拥抱能为倦怠的躯体注入新能量,使你变得更有活力。” Daughter went downstairs to buy fruit, at the door, I used to give her a strong bear hug. The neighbor said, surprised to say: “ah, the children grow taller than you, you still hold her? You really pet her!” Can not help but surprised a moment, then smiling. China’s children, it seems that by the age of ten, very few people will embrace them again. In fact, between parents and children, the best way to get in touch with one another is hugging. It simply and clearly expresses each other’s most true love. The famous American psychologist Herod Fuss said: “Embrace can eliminate depression - can make the body’s immune system performance increases; embrace can burn in the body to inject new energy, make you more dynamic. ”