我想他应该是出生在一个缺少浪漫的灰色年代,一个黯淡而不见生动的枯槁岁月,一点点的摇曳都可以带来许多惊喜与闪光。大概与那个时代的精神风貌及他的自身阅历有关,他很稳重内敛,他不喜欢我的嚣张我的任性,要我懂得“凡事预则立,不预则废”,做到未雨绸缪。可是他不知道这样做我很累,结果及过程都预测好了, 安稳得让我觉得一切都很程序化。 I think he should have been born in a gray age with a lack of romance, a dull and oblivious day, and a little swaying can bring many surprises and flashes. Probably related to the spiritual outlook of that era and his own experience. He was steady and reserved. He didn’t like my arrogance and my waywardness. He wanted me to understand that “every time is presupposed, it is not to be prejudiced,” so that it can be prepared for a rainy day. However, he did not know that I was very tired to do so, and the results and the process were all predictable. I felt that everything was procedural.