现代的家长都懂得教育孩子成才,他们把目光注视在孩子学习、品德等方面的进步上,却很少审视自己的教育是否有利于孩子的成长。有时,家庭教育的失误不但没有促进孩子的发展,甚至会在其心灵中积累下消极经验,成为孩子发展的阻碍因素。张凯是一个小学二年级的学生,一天,老师让每人拿出一纸进行小测验,由于没有单页纸,张凯 Modern parents know how to educate their children. They pay attention to the progress of their children’s learning and morality. However, they rarely examine whether their own education is conducive to their children’s growth. Sometimes mistakes in family education not only fail to promote the development of children, but also accumulate negative experiences in their minds and become obstacles to the development of children. Zhang Kai is a second-year primary school students, one day, the teacher let each take a piece of paper for a quiz, because there is no single page, Zhang Kai