一生一死,一始一终,是每个人必经的两件事,所以,庄子借孔子之口说:“死生亦大矣。”谁都不喜欢死,却又都避不开死。死不仅是个人生命的终结,更是社会伦理链条上至关重要的一环。就这样,死变成了一桩必须悲悲切切又声势浩大地去处置的大事,所谓婚丧嫁娶,人生大事也就是结婚和死亡最重了。丧事是活人办,也是办给活人看,跟死丧相关 Life and death, from beginning to end, is that each person must go through two things, so Zhuangzi by the mouth of Confucius said: "No one likes to die, but can not avoid death. Death is not only the end of personal life, but also an essential part of the social ethics chain. In this way, death has become a major event that must be grieved and maneuvered to deal with. The so-called marriage and funeral, the most important event in life, are the marriage and the death. Funeral is a living person to do, but also do for the living to see, with the death-related