目前,在家教方面存在着一个带有普遍性的问题,就是部分家长的教育思想、教育孩子的出发点往往与学校、国家不一致。学校主张德育为首,部分家长却以智育为首;学校要求全面发展,部分家长追求升学第一;学校致力于培养“四有”人才,部分家长认为学习好就是一切,孩子的锦绣前程最重要。由于二者反差大,影响了学校教育方针的贯彻,对培养孩子树立正确的人生观很不利。 At present, there is a universal problem in tutoring that is part of the parents’ educational thinking. The starting point for educating their children is often inconsistent with that of schools and countries. The school advocates moral education led by some parents, but with intellectual education as the first; the school requires all-round development, some parents pursue the first school; the school is committed to cultivating “four have” talent, some parents think learning is everything, the most important child’s beautiful future . Because of the contrast between the two, affecting the implementation of school education policy, it is unfavorable to cultivate children to establish a correct outlook on life.