生活中，对于别人的言论或行动，自己常有不同的看法。如何运用得体的语言，采用适当的方式，表明自己的意见，并使别人心悦诚服，乐于接受，这可是一门学问。反话正说古代有则故事，讲的是“乐妻劝婆”，读来很受启发。故事大意是说，有个读书人，名叫乐学子，家境贫穷。他外 In my life, I often have different opinions about what people say or do. It is a question of how to apply proper language, adopt proper methods, show our own opinions, and make others be convinced and willing to accept it. Opposite is saying that there is a story in ancient times, talking about “wife and wife persuasion”, reading is very inspired. The story to the effect is that there is a scholar, called music students, their families are poor. He is outside