近年来,随着大龄未婚女青年的数目愈来愈多,相亲已成为解决大龄女青年婚姻问题的主流途径。本文概括介绍了相亲发展现状及成因,阐述了相亲对大龄女青年心理所带来的积极与消极影响,最后对大龄女青年要怎样对待相亲提出了一些建议。 In recent years, with the increasing number of older unmarried young women, blind date has become the mainstream way to solve the problem of the marriage of older women. This article gives an overview of the current situation and causes of blind date development, elaborates the positive and negative impact of blind date on the mentality of older women, and finally puts forward some suggestions on how to treat elders with blind date.