在健康正常的成人身上,安全感需要一般都得到了满足。而儿童和神经症的成人往往缺乏安全感。缺乏安全感的人常把周围环境理解为“威胁性”或“敌对性”的,感到自我价值受到威胁,而对外界产生不同程度的敌意,这种敌意会给周围的人带来伤害,更会伤及自身。因此,我们需要掌握一些必要的心 In healthy adults, the need for security is generally met. Adults and children with neurosis are often insecure. Lack of security often interprets the environment as “threatening” or “hostile,” and feels that self-worth is at risk and that it has varying degrees of hostility toward the outside world, and that hostility can harm people around them. Will hurt itself. Therefore, we need to have some necessary heart