现代社会婚姻家庭领域出现了许多新变化,其核心问题是婚姻中个人行为和社会行为的矛盾冲突。今天,个人主义增长,个人对婚姻的权力和选择被强调,一些人以个人幸福主义的观点对待婚姻,只想享受婚姻家庭权力,不想履行婚姻家庭义务,然而婚姻的本质并没有改变,婚姻依然是社会行为,因此发生了个人与社会的冲突。分析现代婚姻中个人行为和社会行为的矛盾统一,引导人们理性地对待婚姻家庭问题,既有重大的理论意义,也有现实意义。 Many new changes have taken place in the field of marriage and family in modern society. The core issue is the conflict between individual and social behaviors in marriage. Today, the growth of individualism and individual power and choice of marriage are emphasized. Some people treat marriages in the perspective of personal happiness. They only want to enjoy the power of marriage and family. They do not want to fulfill the obligations of marriage and family. However, the nature of marriage has not changed and marriage remains Is a social behavior, so there has been a personal and social conflict. To analyze the contradiction and unification of personal behavior and social behavior in modern marriage and to guide people to treat marriage and family rationally is of great theoretical and practical significance.