当婚姻成为幸福的桎梏时,父母们可以解除婚约,重筑爱巢。而对孩子而言,父母的离异使原本宁静、温馨的生活被搅得支离破碎,孩子们跌进了人生情感的裂谷,心情也随之进入雨季。有人曾对父母离异的131名孩子进行5年的追踪观察,结果显示,父母离异对不同年龄的孩子有不同的影响:6岁以内的儿童表现为害怕、退缩和自我责备;6~9岁的儿童表现为悲伤、害怕,想念父母中离去的一方,对“忠实何方”无所适从;10~15岁的少年在外表上似能战胜家庭危机带来的不幸,但内心却 When marriage becomes a joke of happiness, parents can dissolve their marriage and rebuild their nest of love. For children, the separation of parents makes the original quiet, warm life is fragmented, the children fall into the rift of emotional life, the mood also will enter the rainy season. A follow-up study of 131 children whose parents divorced was conducted for five years showed that the divorce of parents had different effects on children of different ages: children under the age of 6 showed fear, withdrawal and self-blame; children aged 6 to 9 Children appear to be sad, afraid, miss the parents left in the party, “loyal to” know what to do; 10 to 15-year-olds appear to be able to overcome the family crisis on the appearance of misfortune, but the heart is