人的本质在现实性上是一切关系的总和,人的存在是关系互动中的存在,人的受伤受挫和自我也来自关系互动中的建构。积极正向的自我疗愈与自我成长是觉知下的负性情绪释放和放下防御。关系中的个体本来整体相连,认识关系的本质,关系变得没有伤害,领悟并觉察是疗愈与自我成长的重要方式。 The nature of human beings is the sum of all relationships in realism. The existence of human beings is the existence of relations and interactions, the frustration of human beings and the self-construction of relations between themselves. Positive and positive self-healing and self-growth are aware of the negative emotions released and put down the defense. Individuals in the relationship are originally connected as a whole, understand the nature of the relationship, the relationship becomes harmless, comprehend and aware is an important way of healing and self-growth.